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  • The balls out truth about depression

    This is what i know this morning post coffee pre wine yesterday my friend asked me, did you ever try it? yes, i said, yes, i tried suicide. obviously, this was all around the news of robin williams & his death. yes, i said… i...
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  • It’s the year of YOU

    this is what i know this morning. post coffee. pre champagne. it’s about a new year. 2015. the year of YOU. it’s about kicking-ass. it’s about never giving up even when all of life is saying no, you can’t. it’s about pushing, moving mountains &...
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  • Cosby & effect

    there is a lot of despicable in the world. a lot. i keep reading the stuff about bill cosby, and i keep wanting to share a secret – my secret – with you. and then i get scared and think, no. it’s a bit ugly...
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  • Live your life to the nines

    in about two weeks i’m turning 60. six oh. and i don’t feel 60. and to be balls-out honest, i’m not really sure what 60 is supposed to feel like. but this is what i absolutely fucking know, 60 is not the new 18, or...
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  • Sometimes forever isn’t long enough

    iKen: i’m not goin’ anywhere, i’m gonna love you forever. ken is gonna turn 74. good news, right? the good news/great news is that he’s here — literally — and he’s turning 74 in January; loving his life, enjoying every second. he’s so very good...
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  • It’s a hair thing

    my husband, iKen, has a miata. he loves his little car. he loves that it’s a convertible & he gets to tool around in it & make-believe he’s 25, or around that age, again. except for picking up chicks while driving/tooling around, it brings him...
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  • The balls-out truth about depression

    this is what i know this morning post coffee pre wine yesterday my friend asked me, did you ever try it? yes, i said, yes, i tried suicide. obviously, this was all around the news of robin williams & his death. yes, i said… i...
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  • Picking at the estrangement scab

    I’m just letting you know straight up that this is not about my family. It’s not. Been there, wrote that. Besides, I don’t want to write about all that crap, that ugliness, all that god-awful sadness that went down. I mean, why write about that...
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  • Ragtime

    (Excerpt from Marrying George Clooney, Confessions From A Midlife Crisis, Seal Press. Check out the vimeo at the end!) The clock reads 2:34 AM. I am determined to fall back asleep. Determined. I am determined to fall back asleep without any help from any sleep enhancement...
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