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  • retirement, round one

    ken and i are together 24/7. okay, you know what, that’s not entirely true, we’re not together 24/7, we’re together more like 48/14. we’re together so much it feels like we’re fucking conjoined. ‘hey, i have to pee.’ ‘no, no… i have to pee.’ ken...
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  • Breakfast at Epiphany’s

    it was november 7, 1991. i had just spent a weekend with a man who broke my heart. you know what, let me rephrase that: i had just spent a weekend with man who fucking knew he was going to break my heart when i...
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  • The Shame Prom: “Where everyone is invited to dance”

    by Amy Ferris and Hollye Dexter Amy: “We live in an atmosphere of shame. We are ashamed of everything that is real about us; ashamed of ourselves, of our relatives, of our incomes, of our accents, of our opinions, of our experience, just as we...
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  • Venus and Mars

    by Amy Ferris & Hollye Dexter HOLLYE I know it will make me unpopular to say that men and women aren’t equal, but its true. I mean, we are equally capable of course. We can reach the same magnitudes of greatness and accomplishment, but the...
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    A conversation between Hollye Dexter and Amy Ferris on the B Word. Hollye’s Perspective:

 Bitch:  “a malicious, spiteful, or domineering woman — sometimes used as a generalized term of abuse.” – Merriam-Webster Dictionary. Someone called me this ugly word a couple weeks ago, and it...
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