• I’m still here

    by Christy Sillman

    Someone recently asked me “Do you still write for iPinion?” This was the moment I knew my writer’s block was a problem.

    The funny thing is I don’t have “writer’s block” in the traditional way; I have more of a “time-block” issue on my hands. You see, I write columns all the time. Life provides me the material and suddenly I have a few lines written in my head. It happens all the time – while I’m doing the dishes, driving to work, or even in the shower. This never occurred before iPinion. These people did this to me.

    In the past I stole moments while my infant son slept on me to jot sentences down in my Blackberry, or I utilized one of 2 or 3 daily nap-times to revisit a thought I had earlier that morning. More recently I had to schedule writing time – an evening void of my television friends, or nap-time at the end of a long week off from work (after all my chores were done earlier in the week).

    In January I re-visited my cardiologist for a check-up. I had a slight feeling that my heart may not be in tip-top shape, but the news they gave floored me. I’m getting much worse, and if I don’t get a handle on it NOW I’ll end up in full blown heart failure before I know it. So along with heavier doses of medications they prescribed exercise, and lots of it. Thirty to sixty minutes of make-you-sweat cardio five to six times a week. It sounds almost do-able when I write it out, but it is a lot harder than you can imagine – especially when you’re upping medications that make you feel like you’re moving through cement.

    So suddenly my already dwindling me-time had to be replaced with ME-time.

    No more messing around. This is serious and my husband isn’t going to let me forget it – thank goodness.

    We bought a stationary bike the evening of that cardiology appointment and it’s parked proudly next to my side of the bed and in front of the TV. I’m doing fairly well. I would honestly say I’m achieving a minimum of four to five workouts a week. Some weeks are better, some weeks are worse. I’ve made two increases in my meds and I’m half-way to my final milligram destination – the side effects are so horrendous I’m taking baby steps up every six weeks.

    So you see, my writing time is quickly vanishing, despite the build-up of writing material in my mind.

    If only I could insert a keyboard in my head.

    I did consider voice recording column material – that seemed like a very chic approach to “writing” – but my two year old son screams every time I start to talk into any electronic contraption.

    Debra DeAngelo once warned me that one day I would write about not writing. The Goddess is right and I knew it when she said it way back then.

    So here I sit, way past my bed time, taking advantage of insomnia to write something – anything — to let you readers know I still exist and I haven’t forgotten you.

    It’s about two weeks into lent and my husband keeps asking me what I’m giving up. He of course went with soda, again. I attempted giving up FaceBook. That lasted like two hours tops, and I think I was napping for most of those two hours.

    For lent, or permanently, I think I need to replace some TV friend and FaceBook time-suck with writing time. Because, it’s happening, the writing. I just need to make the time to pull it out of my head onto the computer and send it on to iPinion.

    So, yes, I do still write for iPinion. See?



    • Toldja. 😉
      Welcome back to the keyboard!


      • Judy N

      • March 25, 2012 at 12:38 pm
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      Good to hear your voice again!



    • Christy, I love your writing and I am glad you are back but I follow on FB and you write some wonderful pieces for the heart groups you so tirelessly work to promote. I also am glad you are taking care of yourself and your heart. I was hoping you were going to say that you got great exercise at work walking and running all over that hospital but I guess that is not the case. Feel well, take care of yourself and as they say in a plane, put your oxygen on first so you can help others after.



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